JOHN'S OBITUARY
DRISCOLL–Dr. John Manning Jr., age 85, died peacefully at his home in Oradell, NJ, on September 9, 2022. He leaves a rich legacy of family, friends, and lasting contributions to the many communities he belonged to all of which serve as shining examples of his fundamental kindness, boundless generosity, and abiding Catholic Christian faith.
Born in Brooklyn, NY, to John and Margaret Driscoll, John grew up in Manhasset, NY, where he was a member of the first graduating class of St. Mary’s High School and would years later be an inaugural inductee into the school’s Hall of Fame. John attended Hamilton College, where he was a member of the varsity lacrosse and basketball teams and several honor societies. He then attended Wake Forest’s Bowman Gray School of Medicine on a U.S. Navy scholarship, before beginning his residency at the University of Pittsburgh’s Children’s Hospital, where he met a fellow resident, Yvonne Thel, M.D., who would become his beloved wife of 58 years and mother of their six children.
In 1966, the Navy sent John to Vietnam, while Yvonne completed her residency at Washington Children’s as chief resident, no less while caring for their then two children under the age of two. John returned home from Vietnam in 1967 having been awarded a Bronze Star for overseeing the construction of a new hospital and providing health care services for 355,000 Vietnamese civilians who previously had none and resumed his civilian medical career. In 1971, following completion of his pediatric residency, John joined the faculty of the Columbia College of Physicians and Surgeons and the staff of Babies Hospital at Columbia-Presbyterian Medical Center, where he would spend the rest of his career.
John’s specialty was perinatal medicine, and he worked with a team of dedicated doctors and nurses, breaking new ground in the care of premature and high- risk infants. John helped establish Columbia’s neonatal intensive care unit and was its Director from 1973 to 1992. One of John’s greatest sources of professional pride was the Hospital’s annual Alumni Day, where “graduates” would return to see the doctors and nurses who had cared for them. In addition to this annual celebration, there were countless chance encounters when John would meet the parents of a child he had cared for. Their gratitude was palpable. It only is fitting that the neonatal intensive care unit that John helped establish now bears his name. John also founded the Neonatal Ethics Committee at Babies Hospital (now the Morgan Stanley Children’s Hospital of New York), one of the first pediatric ethics committees in the United States. In 1996, John was named the Reuben S. Carpentier Professor of Pediatrics and Chairman of the Department of Pediatrics at the College of Physicians and Surgeons, and the Director of the Pediatric Service of Babies and Children’s Hospital. In 1997, John was elected President of the Medical Board of Presbyterian Hospital and following the merger of the Presbyterian Hospital and The New York Hospital, he served as the first President of the Medical Board of the New York- Presbyterian Hospital. John played a leadership role in the building of the Morgan Stanley Children’s Hospital of New York, which opened in 2003 and now ranks as one of the pre-eminent children’s hospitals in the nation. In 2007, he stepped down after nearly forty years of service. The hundreds of physicians, nurses, and other medical professionals he trained and mentored over those four decades years carry on his legacy of compassionate, family- centered pediatric care. John was a member of the Executive Committee of the Perinatal Section of the American Academy of Pediatrics from 1987 until 1995 and was its Chair from 1993 to 1995. John served on the board of the Lucille Packard Foundation for Children’s Health and the Curran Center for American Catholic Studies at Fordham University and was a fellow in the Division of Medical Ethics at Harvard Medical School. He was fortunate to receive many awards during his career, among them several Outstanding Teacher Awards and a Distinguished Service Award from the College of Physicians and Surgeons and the Arnold P. Gold Foundation Award for Humanism in Medicine; John was especially proud of the honorary degree bestowed on him by his alma mater, Hamilton College, in 2001.
John is survived by his loving wife, Yvonne, his children, Anne (Robert St. Peter, M.D.), John (Ann Mathews), Bill (Anne), Margaret (Matthew Baltay), Kevin (Katherine), Michael (Lauren), and sixteen grandchildren who knew him as “Grandy”: Claire and William St. Peter; Harriet Driscoll; Meghan, Grace, and Maeve Driscoll; Thomas, Luke, Charles, and Matthew Baltay; Declan, Mairead, and Seamus Driscoll; and Keelin, Elery, and Aidan Driscoll. John was the oldest of four children and his brother Peter (Kathy, deceased) survives. John was predeceased by his parents, John and Margaret; and his sisters, Mary (Edward, now living in Florida) and Sheila (Albert). John was a longtime parishioner of St. Joseph’s Church of Oradell/ New Milford, where he served in a range of capacities, including basketball coach, parish council chair, and most recently as chair of the school board. He was also a Knight of the Sovereign Military Order of Malta.
John’s warm smile, gentle manner, and genuine concern for others made him a friend to all he met. John was man of deep and enduring faith – a faith that he truly lived each day of his life. He was so dearly loved by so many, and he will be deeply missed. Visiting hours will be on Thursday, September 15, 2022 from 2pm-4pm and from 7pm-9pm at Basralian Funeral Home, 559 Kinderkamack Rd., Oradell, NJ, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at St. Joseph’s Church in Oradell, NJ at 10am on Friday, September 16, 2022. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to John M. Driscoll, Jr. M.D. Children’s Fund for the Department of Pediatrics at Columbia University Medical Center. Please visit: givenow.columbia.edu/# enter “Driscoll” in the search field to make a donation.
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What a remarkable human being: Dr. John Driscoll is selfless, kind, present and purposeful. Knowing him has been a true gift. While he will be missed, his devotion to his friends, community, patients, fellow physicians and most of all to his family (especially his wife and true partner, Yvonne, is an example of a life well lived. His legacy will endure. We love you, Dr. Driscoll!
Dear Yvonne and Family,
The funeral service was perfect yesterday. The tone, tenor, readings, clergy, and music reflected the deep feelings of respect and love that everyone feels. The simple, yet powerful beauty of the chapel also seemed a reflection of the man we came to celebrate. Dr. Driscoll III gave a eulogy that gave me new insights into your wonderful husband and his father, filled with both with humor and the deep pain felt at this loss.
I realized this week that Dr. Driscoll was the mentor in medicine most meaningful to me since I began as a pediatric resident at Babies’ in 1983. We became friends as I was offered the role of President of the BH Alumni Association, (one of the many organizations he loved)for the year June 2001-2002. As you know that fall contained two horrible events- both 9/11 and the accident that almost ended John’s life.
What you may not know is that it also contained for me the diagnosis and of necessity aggressive treatment of breast cancer (in my 40’s with 3 young children and a full time pediatric practice). My most amazing memory of John is of the phone call that I made with the intention of rescinding my acceptance of the presidency that year due to the unexpected diagnosis. I can picture the corner of my office where I sat during the half hour call. Oddly, I cannot remember what he said except that, without threats, guilt, sadness or anxiety, I ended the call agreeing that I would in fact continue with my plans to lead the organization for that year. It was almost as if an angel had spoken on the other end of the phone.
In short, I believe I was meant, to be the president of BHAA at that horrible time for him, your family and our hospital. The BHAA members donated generously in his honor so that when he woke up there would be a surprise “welcome back” present for him! Though I respected and enjoyed our relationship before that time, those 2001 experiences forged a bond that endured for all these decades in other ways large and small.
Please accept my condolences on this enormous loss for your family, and know that there are many, many other people whose lives were made better and more meaningful because you all shared his goodness so fully!
Love,
Dorothy Levine, MD
Babies Hospital Resident 80-83.
Dr. John was an outstanding friend and supporter to all of us at St. Joseph School. I will always treasure the time we spent working on school projects for the benefit of the students and faculty.
Dear Yvonne and family: John was so much to anyone who met him. I have never known a kinder, gentle, Christian gentle man. He was the heart and soul of the NICU and will always be remembered with love.
A life fully lived by a man of boundless energy and compassion. Years ago, I had the pleasure of meeting the whole Driscoll Family and to this day marvel at how they enriched the lives of everyone that had the good fortune of knowing them.
Dr. Driscoll was our newborn, Cathy Anne’s, doctor when she was transferred to Columbia Presbyterian, Babies Hospital in 1977. He was supportive of our taking her home to die — no one had ever done this before. My husband and I will always be grateful to Dr. D for the wonderful care he gave us and our baby. He and his family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Yvonne and Family, my deepest condolences on so great a loss. Although i finished my Neonatal Fellowship in 1990, i still impart to my housestaff so many pearls John taught me. Having been trained under John has been one of my greatest blessings You are in my prayers, Mary Marron-Corwin
Dr. D, as we affectionately called him, interviewed me for residency. He struck me as a kind and gentle man with the knowledge and power to move mountains…and so, off to Babies Hospital I went during the summer of 2000. That was one of the best decisions I have ever made! Over the course of three years, and especially during my additional year as chief resident, Dr. D was not only my chairman, but my mentor and friend. He helped shape the doctor I am today, always guiding, advising and supporting. I will miss him! I am blessed to have known him, and I will be forever grateful for that.
Please accept my condolences. John was a junior resident at Babies Hospital while I was the senior resident. He was not only bright, but warm and loving to his patients. Many years later, I needed a diploma from Babies and John took care of it.
Harold M. Maurer, MD. Resident 62-64; Fellow in hem/onc 1966-1968.
To Dr. Yvonne and family, Please accept my heart-felt sympathy during this difficult time. Dr. Driscoll recruited me for a pediatric resident in 1994 when he was Chair of pediatrics. I stayed on to pursue a fellowship in neonatal-perinatal medicine. I am forever indebted and honored for the opportunity and privilege. I will always cherish the memories of his grace, kindness, warmth, support, advocacy for patients and parents and the way he imparted knowledge. My thoughts are with you, Elizabeth Hailu
My deepest sympathy to Dr. Yvonne Driscoll and the Driscoll Family. Dr. D was a great man who touched so many during his wonderful life. I owe so much in my career to his mentorship. Dr. Driscoll was one of the reasons I went into neonatology. He always had a kind word and a smile for me during my years at Columbia. I first met Dr. D as a 4th year Medical student at P&S. My rotation in the NICU with him as an attending was so wonderful that I changed my career path from Neurology to Neonatology. I was blessed to have this incredible man in my life as a student, resident, and fellow. Jesus C Jaile-Marti
John, my condolences and prayers to you and your family. This is a very difficult time for you, and as I lost my Dad earlier this year I completely empathize. Cherish the memories. Best regards, Vernon Payumo (BC ’84)
Lots of good discussions and many laughs in high school and HS reunion. My best regards to his family. David Callagy
To Yvonne and Family,
John was a seminal figure in my career — a mentor, a colleague, and a friend. From my first days as an attending in1992 when I was jointly appointed to pediatrics and psychiatry, I was so unbelievably fortunate to have him as my chair. His guidance was so crucial to my development as a physician. He exuded kindness, leadership, intellect, diplomacy, and common sense. I recall many a meeting in his office when myself and other colleagues would sit and try to problem solve, under John’s direction and guidance. He touched so many people but always took time to reach out to me with encouragement, praise, or a holiday card. I cannot overstate how meaningful his presence in my life has been, and will continue to be, as I remember him and try to emulate the kind of man he was. He is already deeply missed.
Dr. Yvonne Driscoll and family,
Please accept my sincerest condolences. Dr. D was a gentle giant — not because he was physically imposing (which he was!), but because of the tremendous positive impact he had on his community and everyone he met.
I remember as an intern offering my condolences when Dr. D’s father passed and he responded something to the effect: Nothing really to be sad about. He lived a great life and the last few years were difficult, but I know he is in a better place. Thirty some odd years later, I say “Well said.”
I will miss his bear hugs
To Dr. Yvonne Driscoll and Family:
Please accept my sincerest condolences, I had the honor and privilege of working under Dr. Driscoll in Pediatrics and Neonatology. He was always so kind and approachable despite being such a stalwart of pediatrics and neonatology. He inculcated a culture of warmth and team work, I greatly enjoyed my training and learned a lot.
My condolences to Dr. Mrs. Driscoll, their children especially John with whom I had the pleasure of working with at the OSC! Her nurturing and ‘managing’ of the Driscoll brood was a vivid indicator of the values she shared with Dr. John in rearing each offspring.
Dearest Yvonne and family,
I am not sure words could ever really capture what Dr. D (it was always hard for me to call him John, although he asked many times!!!) meant to me and my family. In 1974, as a 20 year old graduate nurse, he welcomed me into the little Babies 2 NICU. We bonded immediately and as the NICU moved and expanded, he continued to “father” us all. His support of the nurses was extraordinary and we all knew we had a staunch ally in him. Both of you helped me through some very dark days with my son’s illness and I am forever grateful. These last few difficult years did not diminish his faith or love and I am happy I was able to visit with you both. The words of Timothy continue to return to me when I think of John…”II have fought the good fight. I have finished the race. I have kept the faith.” John leaves an amazing legacy and may sweet memories comfort you and your family at this time.
With my deepest love and gratitude,
Marilyn